Am i just being bitchy?

Me and my bf have been 2gether for 2yrs, off and on, its been rocky. i think i give him enough space cuz when he wants to go out he goes and i dont say anything, but its not like that when i want2... but anyways everytime i speak my mind, he says im complaining. when i catch him when another girl is involved he says to me "nutn happened dont worry about it:" or "at least i didnt do the biggy". (meaning:i had "revenge " with one of my ex's, which was tec when we were on a break in like the 3months of our relationship) 2yrs and i still never lived that down, but im faithful. Lately i realized all my pictures, comments, etc were gone off his myspace. i asked him why, he ask why am i freaking out? lately i try and do y, cute stuff to brightin up the relationship and i get laughed at. also ive been realizing lately he's been tryin to make me jealous. like when hes out with the guys hel call and tell me about this girl who try to hit on him. but what really made me pissed off was when this thing was comin up and i wanted to go, but he told me it was just goin to be him and his bro. so when he gets home it turns out his bro, sister in law, and some of his friends and their other halfs went but me.... i just stay home all day and it was a ten min drive. i ddnt understand y he ddnt come pick me up. when i sit him down to talk the next day about whats going on, y couldnt i have gone..he flips out, packs my stuff and tells me he's takin me to my moms cuz all i do is ***** and complain.... am i really being bitchy?